Dr. Lee Baucom guarantees that his ‘Save The Marriage System’ will save your marriage even if your spouse wants a divorce. Learn more

August 27, 2020

Can ‘Save The Marriage System’ Really Work For Me?

Dr. Lee Baucom, the author and developer of the System, says it absolutely works and there are over 82,000 satisfied people who have discovered the secrets for a successful relationship using the System.

What If I’m Not Satisfied With The Result?

Dr. Lee Baucom guarantees that you will receive unconditional full refund within 60 days after you purchase ‘Save The Marriage System’ if you are not satisfied with the result.

What Bonuses Are Included?

  • Bonus 1: Coping With A Mid-Life Marriage Crisis (mp3 audio format)
  • Bonus 2: Recovering From An Affair (mp3 audio format)
  • Bonus 3: Five Rules For Fair Fighting Report
  • Bonus 4: A Very Special Bonus Ebook: Change Of Heart, by Paul and Jennifer Thibeault – Paul and Jennifer were on the edge of divorce. . . and saved their marriage. They did it in front of a crowd. And they not only saved their marriage, but they became soulmates. After recovering, Paul and Jennifer wanted others to have the same opportunity of saving their own marriage. So, they wrote a book.

What Is The Price And Who Is The Retailer?

The price is $47.00 and the retailer is ClickBank. ClickBank is a U.S. based global internet retailer and affiliate marketplace with more than six-million clients worldwide.

Is ‘Save The Marriage System’ Reasonably Priced?

Dr. Baucom spent several years writing the book (not to mention many years in training and seeing clients), then a great deal of effort to get it online. There are advertising costs, hosting fees, and many hidden costs. This leaves a modest return for his time.

For the most part, free information is usually fairly worthless. Good information has a cost. However, you will notice that compared to other programs, ‘Save The Marriage System’ is a bargain.

Dr. Baucom thinks it is unfair to profit from others’ pain, but it does cost to provide the information.

Compare the cost of ‘Save The Marriage System’ with:

  • Cost of an hour of therapy: $60 to $150, multiply that times 100, the number of sessions in 2 years of therapy ($6,000 to $15,000 total).
  • Cost of an average divorce: $30,000 (not to mention the ongoing losses and emotional toll).
  • Cost of a great marriage: PRICELESS!

What Makes The System Different?

Many times only one partner wants the divorce and the other partner still wants to do everything possible to save the marriage.

But the general belief has always been that a relationship cannot be saved unless both persons want to save it.

Dr. Baucom says that thinking is just plain wrong and he has thousands of marriages he has helped bring back from the brink of divorce to back up his claim.

Dr. Baucom has created techniques which transform relationships… even when only one person is trying! His typical client is a spouse that wants to save their relationship when their partner has already ‘given up.’

What Is Dr. Baucom’s Approach?

Most therapists work from the assumption that, if only one person wanted to work on the relationship, it was impossible to fix.

Dr. Baucom doesn’t approach marriage crises this way. He approaches them like an algebra equation.

If one side of the equation is changed, the other side must change! Incredibly, his clients have achieved an 89.7% success rate. . . even if only one spouse starts the process! 

(Findings based on surveys. Individual results can vary.) 

How Successful Is The System?

‘Save The Marriage System’ has been described as one of the most radical and important sources of relationship saving strategies and techniques ever written.

This System has helped numerous relationships come back to life after affairs, bankruptcies, dishonesty, deception & mid-life crises, and just about any other roadblock.

Couple after couple have proven that it is possible to change a relationship and rescue just about any marriage from the edge of destruction. 

These couples have not just avoided divorce. They have transformed their marriages into something wonderful … something better than they had dreamed possible.

Has Dr. Baucom Tested His Ideas?

‘Save The Marriage System’ is written by a therapist who has been in the trenches day-in and day-out. Dr. Baucom has developed his ideas and tested them.

They are not ideas garnered as a ghost writer, and they are not about manipulating, hypnotizing, or any other silly plot. They are time-tested principles that work.

Who Is Dr. Lee Baucom?

Dr. Lee Baucom is a Relationship Coach and Marriage Expert.

Dr. Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For over 25 years, Dr. Baucom has been helping people around the world to save, restore, and create the relationships they desire and deserve.

His training has been in marriage and family therapy, earning two Master’s degrees and a Ph.D. in the area. He has also completed specialty training in Community Building, as well as in Personal and Life Coaching.

Dr. Baucom is an experienced facilitator of health and healing for individuals, couples, families, and organizations. This experience has given him a different perspective on why couples have problems, and what the solutions are for these problems.

From the beginning, Dr. Baucom was committed to making relationships work. It is his contention that most relationships are salvageable, and that many take the ‘easy way out,’ rather than finding a workable solution that preserves the relationship, leaving the relationship healthy and individuals happy.

Dr. Baucom is happily married, and has two children. He is devoted to his family, and sees that as inspiration for his own work with families trying to find health.

How Is Payment Made And The System Accessed?

After clicking the purchase link, you will be taken to a SSL (Secured-Socket Layer) protected page that requires a small amount of information. This page is hosted by ClickBank, one of the safest companies on the internet to purchase a product from.

The owner of ‘Save The Marriage System’ will never even see your payment information. ClickBank can accept all major credit cards or can access a Paypal account.

After the purchase is confirmed, you will be automatically sent to a special page set up to allow you to download your ‘Save The Marriage System,’ information, and recordings for immediate access.

How Easy Is It To Get A Refund?

You will very easily get unconditional full refund within 60 days after you purchase ‘Save The Marriage System’ if you are not satisfied with the result. If you buy the System from ClickBank, you don’t even need to make a call or chat with anybody to get a refund. Just go to clickbank.com and:

  • Click ‘Support’ on the menu bar
  • Scroll down and click ‘Customer Support’
  • In a new tab that opens, click ‘Look Up Your Order’
  • Fill in your details and request a refund

Why Is The System In An Electronic Format?

  • Electronic format allows the creator to maintain full control over the content. There is no editor or publisher with an agenda to change the content. You are reading what the creator intended to say.
  • Going through a traditional publisher creates a 2 to 4 year delay from acceptance to publication. Electronic format allows you to access the System immediately.
  • You can have instant access, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Since there are readers on every continent and in many countries, having access anywhere in the world at any time is very convenient.
  • Because you don’t have to pay for printing or shipping, you pay significantly less than you would for a ‘hard copy’ version of the System.


“A 32 year marriage resurrected

Like most married couples, I was skeptical about this program. After attending numerous marriage counseling sessions that resulted in a waste of time, my wife and I decided to try this. We’ve been married 32 years and thought we knew it all. Lee’s program opened our eyes to a whole new concept of marriage. His concepts and ideas opened our minds to allow us to communicate in a way we had not known. Not only did this program save our marriage but, strengthen the bond and we are experiencing the joy in our marriage we lost many years ago. We are thrilled we bought in but, wish we’d have come across Lee years ago. From my wife and I, thank you so much and we pray that other couples looking for help will find you.”

Tim Merris (Verified Purchase)

“The key to unlocking the prison I build in my mind

After learning what was wrong with my perception and using some tools I picked up from the system and the podcasts, I was able to turn a very bad row round which nearly ended our 15 year marriage. I still fail and react to situations, but now it’s easier to pick myself up and not insist in heading down that ‘I am always right’ route. The podcasts are very enlightening. The tools freed me from the mind prison I always build for myself, my marriage and my family. I am sharing the information with my husband and he is receptive to it. Thank you Lee for all you have done for my family!”

Milligan Chin (Verified Purchase)


I love this. It’s not only to try and save my marriage but also personally helps me in this horrific time I’m in and even if I wasn’t going through this. It’s great for growth and I feel like this is going to be like a bible to me. I believe before getting married even everyone should be required to read this or it could be redone for that purpose. Excellent life learning right here. This has given me so many answers I was searching for, I just wish I had known and was able to do this much much sooner. If I had known about this in the beginning of the year I truly feel I would be back with my husband right now. Unfortunately I think it’s to late for us, but I’m still hopeing. I feel like my husband has been trying to tell me these things in this book, but I didnt understand. The way the book is written everything became very clear. Either way, this has given me a big eye opener and something I really need to rearead over and over throughout life, especially in hard times. It really helps you understand people and their inner workings to what is actually going on. Great growth tool.”

Rachel Chalmers (Verified Purchase)

“I am more at peace with myself

I purchased The Save The Marriage System about 2 weeks ago when I found out that my husband was having an affair. I don’t know what the future holds at this point, but I believe that I understand how and why we got to this point. I saw myself in so many of the scenarios it was frightening! When he told me he didn’t love me anymore, I actually told him that he was wrong and of course he loved me! I was also holding him to my expectation of romance; so instead of doing what I would want, I am trying to little things for him that he had always done for me. I have been able to step out of the chaos and have begun to practice the 3 C’s – Calm, Consistent, Constant. I suppose I am listening and paying attention now instead of telling him what and how he is supposed to feel. As I said, I don’t know what tomorrow will bring, but I am more at peace with myself and with my husband than I have been in many years. My husband has been my best friend for 23 years and am now treating him with the kindness and respect that I didn’t even realize had faded.”

Mary Spack (Verified Purchase) 

“Stoo looking & start acting- you’ve found the program to save your marriage 

Although I only started this program a few weeks ago, I am very happy with it. I did a lot of research on various programs available on the internet but the Save The Marriage program is the only one that truly speaks to the dynamics of a marriage, not just a dating relationship. Lee’s program does not involve manipulation or games, it focuses on true connection and sees the big picture of building a lasting, fulfilling relationship. So many other programs only focus on how to get back with your spouses but what then? I have committed my self to his program 150% and in the end , no matter what the outcome is, I know I will be able to look at myself in the mirror and confidently say I did absolutely EVERYTHING I could to save my marriage and give it a fight chance. Dr Baucom is the most knowledgeable, skill and caring coach I’ve even encounter and his advise and guidance has become the doctrines by which I live by in the process of saving my marriage.” 

Stephanie Alfieri (Verified Purchase) 

“Beautifully succinct wisdom 

I am only just over halfways through the eBook for SAVE THE MARRIAGE, and although I was a little skeptical about how it might work as some of the online material feels a little over the top, but perhaps that’s just my naturally reserved English manner getting the better of me. But I’m glad I decided to buy the guide as it is truly superb. It echoes and articulates everything I have been feeling in ways so succinct and to the point without needless waffle. I do not yet know whether it will have the desired effect in help me to repair my relationship with my wife who I love more than air, but I have some hope that with the wisdom contained in its’ pages I stand a better chance than any previous efforts and advice I have found, including marriage counselling which helped not a bit, and a years’ self awareness counselling which was some use to me personally but none to the marriage. We shall see, and regardless of the outcome, I would like to thank Lee Baucom for nailing it.” 

Henry Steadman (Verified Purchase) 

“Essential for every marriage 

Fresh approach and simplistic. Better than any counselor or seminar!!!” 

Michele Langholz (Verified Purchase) 

“A compass

I don’t know how this process will end, but if I had this lens to view my marriage through from the start I believe we would never have been here to begin with. Stay calm, keep your mouth shut, order this program and save yourself a lifetime of heartaches and what it’s trying to unravel all the mistakes — well intentioned or not — that you would have made in this crucial time.”

John Ball (Verified Purchase)

“Wish I’d Never Tried Traditional Marriage Couseling

Three weeks ago my husband stormed out of our 4th session with a marriage counselor promising to file for divorce. Desperate, I took to the Internet and found the Save the Marriage System. In just over a week he was on board with trying the system and we’re slowly mending our relationship, and I’ve hardly done anything yet! Simply changing my approach and attitude, with some helpful tips to get me started, has brought my marriage back from the brink. Thank you.”

Nicole Peterson (Verified Purchase)

“This isn’t just for marriage relationships…

This isn’t just a system to save your marriage, it’s also a system to save yourself! The peace, comfort, and reassurance I received from reading through this helped me realize that I could actually save my marriage and brought out the confidence in myself to move forward with my life, sanity and happiness still intact. I has gone to Marriage counseling twice with my husband, the therapist told my husband, “so basically the marriage is over, and you just need to man up and leave”. I wanted to fly out of my chair, smash the guy in the face and scream “What the hell are you doing to my marriage, why are you destroying it!!!??” That was the last session, thank God the sessions were at 7 in the morning and because of my husband’s busy schedule he didn’t want to go either, but those words were ingrained in my husband’s mind and was all he could think of… I was sure my marriage was completely destroyed! I started the system a month into finding out that my husband wanted a divorce. I was doing EVERYTHING wrong; telling him I’d change, begging for just a chance to show him things could be different, causing drama that was counterproductive, and so much more. I thought I was doing the right things and at times there was headway, but for every step forward there was a huge leap back. I knew I needed to change something I was doing, but I didn’t know what I was doing wrong… I didn’t know what I didn’t know! I searched the internet for everything I could, but nothing was really helpful, until I searched for ‘I have lost my husband’, and found an ezinearticle “I’m losing my husband, what can I do to save my marriage”. Her story continues on her blog and I kept reading… This was where I found which resources she used to help her save her marriage! And I felt, for the first time, that I could actually save my marriage, and my husband was dead set on divorce! Everything that was going on in my life and marriage was exactly as it was written in the book, it was like Dr. Baucom had written my story as it was happening! This is such a comforting and empowering system and I am so thankful to have found it! Because of my financial situation, I first read “How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps: Even If Only YOU Want To!”. I found it extremely helpful, but I wanted more, I needed more! I finally got the entire System because of the risk free offer thinking I would read it, use it, then get my money back and still be able to keep it! But the Save the Marriage System is worth way more than what I paid for it! I have my husband back, our marriage is intact, and my life is so much better! My heart is full and any words to describe how I feel would fall short of actually feelings!”

Bethena Neff (Verified Purchase)

“An invaluable resource

The wisdom and process contained in Save the Marriage is invaluable. Looking back to when I was “cutting and pasting” advise from a variety of sources (counsellors, pastors, friends etc) I can see that much of what they were saying was consistent with the Save the Marriage system but it just wasn’t structured or organized. That lack of a clear and concise plan made it challenging to stay on task and focus in an orderly fashion on the things I need to do every day to build healthy habits and restore our marriage. While there is still a lot of work to be done to save my marriage I believe that Save the Marriage is a powerful resource in in doing so. Thank you and keep up the good worth.”

Donald Dewaay (Verified Purchase)

“Would recommend this to anybody in this same situation

I have read alot of the material and found it to be rather informative. My Wife and I are currently separated, she moved out 6 weeks ago, I have not seen her for 3.5 weeks now, but have been texting with her. I have been trying the info on keeping in contact with text and seems to be working pretty good. I also have tried some things from the Down/Dirty segment and some things worked to. Today for the first time since my Wife moved out , she texted me to say Hi and ask ” how I was doing?” So I think things may be moving forward from using this material , Hope so anyway.”

Terry Jones (Verified Purchase)

“Find my own peace

I found out my husband’s infidelity about half year ago. We tried to meet with pastor, counselor, even the suicidal prevention intensive classes but it did not work. My husband decided to step away to live separately in different country. I was devastated, trying hard to find how and what I should do. I have bought and read a lot books trying to find an answer but in vain. Until I read Dr. Lee’s book “save the marriage”, it says “not how we get here but what we should do to get out of here” gives me the new perspective. I knew I play part of this situation but hard to accept. The book gives me way to see things differently. I myself read all the material in 3 days and have found peace myself. I am going to share with my husband and work through together. May God bless Dr. Lee’s system to save my marriage and all others seek for reconciliation.”

Meiying Shang (Verified Purchase)

“Not just for the troubling times

This is a wonderful book. I have learned a lot in the first reading I have made through this book. I also purchased the hardback copy. I am going through a very difficult time with my wife, and I am more confident now that I have the tools that Dr. Baucom has provided and laid out. I suggest this book to all married couples, not just when you are at the point of needing it.”

Jason Wagoner (Verified Purchase)

“Reconnect to Meet Needs

I have had a lot of revelations about what has been going on in our marriage. My husband has given up hope on marriage and says that he doesn’t think marriage is for him. By reading about his needs not being met, I found exactly where the disconnect happened in our marriage and now why he’s thinking that marriage isn’t for him. He had happiness in our marriage until the disconnect happened, so now he’s over correcting and trying to get his needs met outside of our marriage. This system is helping me slowly reconnect with him to try to show him that I have the ability to meet his needs.”

Rebecca Buck (Verified Purchase)

“Save the marriage system is truly amazing

I was hesitant for days about the Save the marriage system. I finally went for it and convinced my husband to look into it as well. In a weeks time, after living separately for 3 months and constantly fighting and bickering daily we are in a better place already. With the help of the save the marriage system I believe our marriage of 11 years can be not only fixed but better than ever.”

Brianna Backus (Verified Purchase)

“No nonsense advice and guidance

Outstanding material. By far the most sensible, honest approach. Very intuitive. Very honest. My crisis is only a few weeks old and quite unexpected but the system fits perfectly. I want to save my marriage and this system gives me hope, encouragement and support where i need it the most. It also gave me great insight into the root causes of my marriage dificulties.”

Jamie Gardenier (Verified Purchase)

“Time will tell

The program is great. It is showing me what to do and what not to do. Very useful since I would have done almost everything I that I shouldnt. I can also really see my situation in most of the examples that are given. It is too early in my marriage crisis to say if it worked yet, but things between my wife and I seem to be slowly advancing. I am very glad I found this program. Thanks”

Joseph Grusoski (Verified Purchase)

“So Far So Good

I have read the Save the Marriage ebook within The Save the Marriage System. It makes a lot of sense so far. It is giving my husband and me some clarity on some things. Before this system I read marital books that kept making generalizations based on cultural expectations. This does not normally apply to me, as I do not belong to the same culture as many of the marital experts. I tried to become someone I was not in order to adhere to the “norm”. I was frustrated and convinced I was too selfish or broken to do marriage right. However, a book on boundaries opened my eyes. It also recommended this Save the Marriage System. It has been excellent. I have a better understanding of how to fix the marriage. Also, I no longer feel the need to adhere to some unsaid standard for women. I am happy to know that I can flourish as an individual and have a great marriage… or “have my cake and eat it too”. This system is worth reading. Thank you Lee Baucom!”

Jessica Taylor (Verified Purchase)

“Helpful and Grounding Advice

I first picked up the “Save Your Marriage” book about a month and a half after my husband of 19 years suddenly, without warning, left me and our children. Once I got the book, I realized that I did at least 3 of the 10 things of what NOT to do. It took me a while to get to calm. But when I did, there has been at least one moment (an entire weekend in fact) where we both SHOWED UP. It was at least a good first step. My husband has no idea that I read the book nor bought the system and would laugh at the idea. But no matter what transpires between us, in the end, I have to be able to look at myself in the mirror and say that I have done everything that I can to keep my family together. In the end, I will be better for it as I will continue to learn more about myself moving forward.”

Meredith Arnold (Verified Purchase)

“No words….

There truly are no words to describe how Dr. Baucom speaks as if he is speaking to me / us directly….everything he has said is so accurate and so reflective of what I thought was just “our” unique situation….and after listening daily over and over and over again, this applies to everyone at some time or another….there truly are no words…”

Sarah Wilson (Verified Purchase)

“Did I have much to lose in trying the program in comparison to losing my marriage?

I have only downloaded the program about a week ago, so it is still a little too premature to provide full positive results. I don’t put a lot of value on reviews for people who comment on a product after owning it for a very short period of time.. Also, I was a bit concerned about the over all program, for once I bought it, but before downloading it, I was sent other things to sign up for, for an additional cost. I was ready to see if I could somehow get out of the program. But thinking further about it, and the cost being minimal, I went ahead with the download. Again, for the cost, I was not expecting much. As it turns out, I am thrilled with the overall package, and feel I have already received more than five times the value of what I paid. I have read the book, and some of the supplemental guides. I feel I was doing many, but not all of the recommendations from the program, so I felt good that I was on the right track.. However, with the program giving better guidance, I feel that I am able to accomplish the task of putting things back together in our relationship. I did not mention that I am doing this without the support of my partner. But, surprisingly, I have noticed things that I didn’t expect from her, as a reaction to some comments, suggestions and activities. The phone time spent with the counselor was an added benefit, where the time on the phone is worth the price of the program, if you compare it to a one on one counselor. Together, the counseling and the reading has helped to put me in a better frame of mind as I approach each day and handle some uncomfortable situations. I have always tried the “Us” approach, where it usually would up me against her. But with the program, the “WE” is starting to work its way into our relationship. The reading material is really easy reading, and provides many examples which you can easily relate to. I am not expecting things to turn around immediately, although it is what I am hoping for. I know that I need to be patient and am aware that additional help is available, which I am interested in looking in to.”

William Ryan (Verified Purchase)

“Real hope

I have purchased numerous books, on-line tutorials and resources from several sources in an attempt to turn my marriage around. This is the first one that actually seems to be making a difference and is based on sound advice – not quick fix solutions that ultimately add to the problem. I am once again hopeful about getting my marriage back on track.”

Jacqualyn Scanlan (Verified Purchase)

“My journey

The save the marriage program has provided me with an opportunity of a lifetime . The approach is logical yet compassionate., informative but not manipulative. I dont want to talk my wife into staying…I want us both to be happy and treasure our marriage. Im at the begining of the program and don’t know how my journey will end….if you feel the way I do…take a chance! I wish I had these tools a month ago…or maybe even a year ago. Thank you Dr Baucom for your work saving families. I hope you get to that 100% sucess rate…which would mean you saved my greatest joy in life…My Family as well as so many others… C.”

Christopher Mutone (Verified Purchase)

“Thank you , thank you , thank you!!

I purchased the save the marriage system 2 weeks ago after my husband of 23 yrs told me he was leaving. We had been having problems for past few yrs and a few months ago I told him I was leaving if his behaviour didn’t change, at that time he told me he still loved me and wanted to work on the marriage. We went for counselling but it didn’t work. I was holding onto a lot of hurt and resentment. I expected him to change and was blaming him for everything. When I told him that I was leaving if he didn’t change he withdrew from me further. This was his defence mechanism as he had been abused as a child and abandoned by both his parents. He has a lot of trust issues obviously and my threatening to leave made him shut down. When I purchased the system I was able to let go of the anger and resentment I had and focus on myself. I took responsibility for my actions and started working on the system myself. after only 2 weeks my husband came home from work and gave me a big hug and asked me to go on a date with him. That was 2 days ago. Things are on track, and he has made an appointment with a counsellor to talk about his trust issues. He opened up to me about many things since then. I believe our marriage will be better than it ever has been and it couldn’t have happened without the great advice I got from this system.”

Joanne Brearley (Verified Purchase)

“This ebook and this program has been a great comfort to me.

Only half way through but already feeling much better about myself and the potential to save my marriage. I have to admit that I was desperate for help when I decided to download the ebook. It turned out to be a great decision. The verdict is still out on saving my marriage, but between the information and exercises in this book, the additional emails that Lee sends out, the podcasts and finally the telephone counselling , I am getting some valuable support and guidance allowing me to give saving my marriage my “best shot”. If it turns out my spouse still leaves the marriage… I will still have made many needed changes within myself and will be a better person for it. Thanks for being there during a difficult time in my life.”

Mark Despault (Verified Purchase)

“Save the Marriage System is a great tool for people who are committed to doing the work needed to transform a destructive rela

In just one week of studying the Save the Marriage System I have been able to significantly increase my awareness of how my behavior has been sabotaging my attempts to change the destructive course of my relationship and how my ego has been getting in the way. I’ve already made it through some events that previously would have derailed my inconsistent attempts to “react” positively when my natural reaction would normally have been negative. The concepts and strategies resonated with me and I could easily relate them to most of the issues I’ve been having for years during the deterioration of my relationship with my wife. Applying the material, I’ve been able to change my perspective of my mate and begin to fill her needs, which, in time, I believe will give her a desire to fill mine. I do need more time to know if it will give me the results I want, but so far, it seems like the best tool I’ve come across and I am confident it will help.”

Herbert Deitelbaum (Verified Purchase)

“Dont lose hope there is help at the end of the tunnel

This got to be the best material out there worth every penny. if you are a person that has not lost hope in your marriage there is still hope. i have been following every step on this book and not only helping me fix my relationship with my wife, and its also helping me how to cope with anger and resentment i had for many years.”

Daniel Villarreal (Verified Purchase)

“Love this system

I found this system a few months after my marriage was in a very bad place. Before I found this system, I did some good things but made a few mistakes. I wish I found it at the beginning of our crisis. I would have done things so much differently at the beginning or before things became really bad between me and my husband. I love this system. One; it helps you try to save your marriage if you’re the only one who is working on the marriage. Two; it teaches you to take care of yourself again and become a better person. To recognize my part in the marriage crisis and take responsibly. Three; there’s no manipulation or reverse phycology. Four; he recommends other resources that he trust on his podcast or through the emails he sends out. The emails are very helpful. Five; you can download it and take it anywhere to read or listen. I wish I could give you some good results but I just started the system last week. I am trying to follow all his instructions even though times get hard. One time I wanted to call my spouse (while still in the begging stages of reconnecting) then I got an email from Lee. I know it’s a mass email but it kept me on track. I also recommended this system to a friend.”

Mai Hagan (Verified Purchase)

“Keep on being a loving person to your spouse.

Lee, So far, I’ve read and am rereading all of the materials I’ve been able to download. Thank you for your helpful program. I can clearly see I have been doing some things incorrectly and others I am on track as you recommend. Thus far, after too many hurtful separations and hurts that are now huge hurdles to navigate through, I am working towards loving my wife and myself as best as I can, wanting to put forth my sincere best effort at succeeding in earning the chance to win back her heart. I truly love my beloved friend and companion. The biggest piece of the program advice for me is to remain calm, consistent and constant as I had given up hope at one point. I am now “turning over every stone” and working the program with renewed hope. I just came back from going on a brief movie date with my wife and made tentative plans to get together soon. Life is a journey and I am looking forward to the day that we can put our hurts behind us and move forward in love and light…with renewed confidence of having learned much from the Save My Marriage program. Saying thank you is not enough but seems most appropriate. Respectfully Grateful, Gregory”

Greg Marquez (Verified Purchase)

“Worth your time.

Skeptical at first, but once I started reading and putting the concepts into my marriage I have seen some pleasing and positive results. I can honestly say that the concept of misperception is one of the major factors to creating conflict in my marriage. Until I had read the save your marriage book I hadn’t quite understood why I or my spouse would get upset. If you are even reading this then you are interested in trying to help your marriage and it is helping me. It can help you as well. Easy to read and easy to put into practice in your marriage. Just remember it take commitment and hard work to keep a Marriage going.”

Matthew Crawford (Verified Purchase)

“Finding Hope

My review is short so far. I just started the STM system. However the first 60 pages have given me hope that things can go in a different direction. Thru the first pages I’ve been able to stop blaming both of us and start working on what I can do to be a better husband. I have started opening conversations about WE and just listening to what is important to my wife. When met with “we don’t have the same goals” I simply say why don’t we build on the things we do view the same. At first the conversation from her headed to we are just disconnected, and I would agree. Then I would ask her why not work on reconnecting, it is much more fun and rewarding. After all isn’t that something we can both agree on together. We have agreed to keep those type conversations short and spend more time talking about our day, the kids, camping trips, and things that are important to both of us to help rebuild the disconnect. I have not been healed of all the hurt but I am finally able to feel like there is hope for healing.”

James Miller (Verified Purchase)

“Thank you for your wisdom and clarity and help, Dr. Baucom!

I have been listening to Dr. Lee Baucom’s podcasts for months and recently decided to get the Save the Marriage System, when my husband and I became so disconnected that neither of us felt hopeful. I’m finding Dr. Baucom’s system to be the most helpful information about marriage and relationships that I have ever come across. It’s clear, it’s useful and totally makes sense to me. I don’t feel bad or guilty that I’ve made mistakes along the way, or that the crises we’ve had are just my fault or my problem. I love the concept of WE that Dr. Baucom discussed one day in a podcast. It was a moment where things began to make sense to me. It was THE missing piece for me, and gave me the hope I needed to continue to find a way to heal my relationship issues, and to begin to nurture the relationship I have with my spouse. We went to marriage counseling in the past and it helped some, for a while, but the STM is something we can keep coming back to when we do need help, or if we get off track. Already, in just the short period of time I have spent reading and using he information has helped me so much, and in that I have noticed a positive change in our marriage. Yesterday my husband listened to a Save the Marriage podcast and he said he felt relief because the information was presented in a way that does not put any “blame” onto either of us. Instead it gave us insights which helped both of us instead of fueling one side or another. We are developing new ways of connecting with each other and we owe it to having this information that validates OUR marriage, not just one of us. It’s really beautiful. Thank you, Dr. Baucom for your clarity and wisdom and help. We are both hopeful that our marriage will last and will continue to grow healthier and happier and more fulfilling for US.”

Cynthia Neely (Verified Purchase)

“So far it has worked well towards rebuilding my marriage

So far the “apology letter and the “no pressure approach ” to building back our Friendship has been amazing. I used to beg and plead with my wife and ask and Talk about things being back to “normal” but backing away from that and giving her some space with no pressure and no investment in the specific outcome has allowed us to rebound from a dangerous crisis that we were close to my wife leaving me.”

Michael Epstein (Verified Purchase)

“Don’t Panic!

I wish I would have read this BEFORE I got married so I would have had an understanding that the pitfalls of relationships are normal and not the end of the world! Don’t panic! is the advice that kept me reading, and as I continued I felt more and more calm and able to communicate effectively. My husband and I were separated, but now we are back in the same home and working on saving our marriage!”

Amy Frazier (Verified Purchase)

“Save MyMarriage

Unfortunately, the Save The Marriage system may be too late for me. My husband has filed and is unwilling to go to counseling.”

Lisa Thielmeier (Verified Purchase)

“Very Informative And Encouraging For Those Going It Alone

Dr. Baucom’s program is grounded in sound psychology, is easy to follow, and it has helped me identify problems in my marriage that I had a hard time pinpointing on my own (and in marriage counseling). I am encouraged by his emphasis on how one person can (at least begin) to save the marriage even if the other partner isn’t interested in saving it. I have read similar theory consistent with Baucom, which makes me more encouraged. I wish I had found his program a year or two ago as my marriage is close to the brink, but I do believe it could help others, especially if you read this before things get too bad.”

Paul Leonard (Verified Purchase)

“Thankful I found this

So far working very well for us. I always though communication was our biggest problem and didn’t realize until I started this that there was a lot of resentment on both ends preventing both of us from wanting to communicate. Love the concept. We honestly got sidetracked with the holidays but look forward to reading more in the new year. Thanks!”

Kristin Swiler (Verified Purchase)

“Eye opener!

This has bend a great benefit to me and my wife no matter what the final outcome of our situation, I have learned so much information that I wish I would of had years ago. My personal apology has changed my life to beyond what I could ever imagine with how I have treated the one I have said I am in love with. Thank-you!”

Frederic Bartlett (Verified Purchase)

“This information has been very enlightening.

We have just started the process so I don’t have any specific results to report on other than we agreed this was a good program to help with out problem. However, I am very happy with the information that was provided. Based on my review of the content it seems that this will be a very comprehensive source of information. I have listened to a few of the podcasts and they are very helpful. I’m looking forward to working through the process and make our marriage better than it ever was.”

Douglas Nowell (Verified Purchase)

“Well Done TSTMS

I am currently working through the TSTM system by myself as my husband and I are separated by his choice. We have had many ‘mini traumas’ in the last 10 years which I think have contributed to where we are now. I am working through the system to help me be more respectful when talking and interacting with my husband however I feel angry because my husband has refused to discuss why he made a decision to separate and why he will not go to counselling with me. As I have only recently started working through the system then I am not sure if it will save my marriage however I believe the system will help me to work on relationships and certain situations in a better way. I am really finding the podcasts helpful and a good way to reinforce the information that I am reading. Thank You Tracy B”

Tracy Bold (Verified Purchase)

“One must first understand the problem in order to address it

The audio lessons have been extremely helpful in helping me understand the dynamics in the relationship between my spouse and I. Understanding these roles and dynamics in our emotional relationship have been key to me being able to “do” something about it. We’ve had been attending Couples Therapy but I didn’t get the high-level overview that this program provides and for me, this high-level overview has been extremely helpful in making positive progress in re-connecting with my spouse.”

Kevin Bosse (Verified Purchase)

“Thank you for the guidance and help

Its been since March that we separated. I was blind to how some of my sarcasm and attempts at veiled humor bruised my beloved and was pushing her away. I was raised to be considerate, polite, compassionate, thoughtful, but because of some of life’s travails I became angry. Lost a teenage son to a drunk driver while my son was walking on the sidewalk. The drunk driver had no license. Much later, My remaining children filed a lawsuit after my mother died claiming that they were cheated out of some of her Estate. Even more anger. I took it out on her. Fortunately I found the ‘Save the Marriage system” and with its help have been able to release a great deal of anger, forgive the driver that killed my son and have written my oldest son, forgiving him for the actions that he took after my mother died. I pray for the day when my beloved and I can sit and talk and she sees the improved change in me and how I have come to realize how much I value, respect and love her. We are both in the later stages of life and know that there was never one like her and there never will be one like her for the remaining years of my life. Thank you for the great work.”

Francis Iaconis (Verified Purchase)

“Has helped my marriage in less then 2 weeks!

This ebook has helped my marriage in a great way and I’m not even done reading it yet! It’s also still helping us even though I’m the only one reading it, not my husband. I’ve tried several different things suggested and my husband has been very receptive. The one thing I’ve read so far that really sticks out to me is that the same way of thinking about things isn’t going to change anything, you have to change the way you think first. This bit of advise has been key for me! Thank you so much!”

Ryan Grant (Verified Purchase)

Who Is The System For?

‘Save The Marriage System’ is not designed to be a ‘get your ex back’ type of program.

This program is specifically designed to be helpful to married couples who are still in the marriage, but are having seemingly irreconcilable problems and seem to be heading down the path to divorce.

What Are The Electronic Format Types?

The System is built on easily accessible formats. The documents are in PDF format, and can be opened on any device. The audio files are in mp3 format, which also open across platforms. You download the information for immediate access, so you can get started quickly.

What Will I Discover In The System?

  • The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
  • The ‘real’ secrets to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.
  • How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
  • How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
  • What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your marriage!
  • Why ‘hard work’ on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
  • How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage’s future.
  • Why ‘low mood therapy’ is destined for failure and how ‘high mood relating’ makes the difference.
  • How to move beyond emotions and take action!
  • How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
  • Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think–and how to get there!
  • What ‘the TIE Elements of Communication’ are, and how they can transform your communication.
  • How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
  • What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
  • Why arguing is a waste of time — and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
  • How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
  • Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
  • How to deal with problems involving sex or money.
  • Why anger and resentment are so dangerous, and what to do about it, regardless of whether you or your spouse is angry or resentful.
  • How to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
  • Much, much more about how to transform your relationship.
  • How to begin saving your marriage beginning in less than an hour, maybe in less than 10 minutes!
  • In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams.

What Modules Are Included In The System?

These four modules create the powerful ‘Save The Marriage System’:

  • Module 1 – The Top Five Things NOT to Do When Your Partner Wants Out
  • Module 2 – Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage
  • Module 3 – Save The Marriage Core Component
  • Module 4 – Down-N-Dirty Guide To Saving Your Marriage

What Are The Pros & Cons Of The System?


  • Time-tested and proven to work
  • Can save your marriage even if you are the only one interested
  • Instant download
  • 60-Day money back guarantee
  • Reasonably priced
  • A high success rate



By Des W, 8/27/2020 – This article was prepared based on information obtained from ‘Save The Marriage System’, CickBank, The Better Business Bureau, and reviews written by users of the System.


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